- Discover Your Interests Again
Separating yourself from someone who has essentially been your “other half” for years can be quite the awakening. Suddenly you have a ton of time to take for yourself without having to consider someone else. Perhaps you have been considering taking up certain hobbies for years but you simply did not have time. Well, you have time now so pick up something new and fun and start becoming your own person again.
- Conflicting Emotions Are Going To Occur
Be prepared: conflicting emotions can be a pain and they most likely will be. Your emotional state will be anything but level the next couple of months, perhaps even longer. Just know, it’s alright to feel sad, angry, tired, confused and many other emotions all at the same time. Starting anew can be a scary process so it’s alright not to know how you feel about it all the time.
- Look Forward to the Future
Give yourself permission to begin looking forward to things again. The marriage wasn’t working and you did what was best for you and your ex spouse. Know that things will improve over time and one day(even if it isn’t one day in the immediate future) you will begin to feel normal again. After all, there is plenty to look forward to.
If you are just in the beginning process of getting divorced or if you and your spouse are currently separated, give yourself the chance for an easy and hassle free divorce by seeking the help of the Law Offices of Loomis & Greene. We would love to support and assist you during this hard time.